One day, my dad and I were on a drive when there was an old couple walking across the street, hand in hand. Upon looking at them, my dad says, “Wow, I love looking at people like this. It gives me so much hope for the world and for my friends and relationships.” I’ve had that phrase in my Notes app for the past 2 months, just waiting to share it with y’all. And today, I’m about to do just that - I’m so excited!
This past Saturday, we had a surprise 50th birthday for my dad’s childhood best friend. They met in Kindergarten, at the age of 5, meaning his birthday marks 45 years of everlasting friendship. 45 YEARS.
Their childhood friends from all over the country flew in just for a day to celebrate the special occasion. It took me a long while to realize this, but the friendship and that person must really mean a lot if they’re willing to fly in for a 6-hour party. That is what I want with my friendships. That is what I want for my future - to be able to tell my kids, “Hey, they’ve been my friend since 6th grade.”
The friendship that these people have to this day is beyond what words can explain. But let me just say that no matter how much time has passed, when all of them are together, it’s like they are kids all over again. The inside jokes come back into play and the teasing starts up too.
In short, I love being around them when they’re together.
And I want to do everything I can to make sure that I can have this with my friends. When I turn 50, I hope I can tell my kids the following: “35 years ago, one of my best friends and I started our Random Acts of Kindness club. 35 years ago, I met my favorite teacher, who even attended my wedding. 40 years ago, I met the people that would stick by my side throughout high school, college, and the rest of my life. And 45 years ago, I learned how important friends are when I made my first few in Kindergarten.”
As I write this, I have tears in my eyes from even thinking of being able to say that 35 years from now. Perhaps I’ve just set myself a goal. Perhaps that means I must start now. And, perhaps that means you too.
Answer the following questions:
Who are the people that I want to be in my life forever? Who are the people that shaped me into me and make me happy? And what am I going to do to cherish that friendship so that it is everlasting?
Thanks for reading, friend! I hope you stick with me as I continue my journey <3
Very well articulated Apuroopa. May you continue to write and enthrall us, God Bless you😘